Leaving your beloved behind and surprised by your sudden departure at home, on the side of the street, or at a restaurant is a classic passive aggressive move. There are many such behaviors that point to “passive-aggressive” behavior. I have isolated ten such destructive scenarios for you to consider. If relationship sabotage is a daily occurrence in your life, then you have a problem. RUN, don’t walk to the therapist, to work on the issue. Otherwise you’re in for one hell of a rollercoaster ride.
Ten Key Lesbian Sabotage Plays
1. You are riding as a passenger while your girlfriend drives. The driving conditions deteriorate. It starts raining or snowing. You get scared and asked your girlfriend to slow down. She refuses to slow down to consider your fear, citing that she’s going the speed limit. She completely ignores your feelings.
2. You just enjoyed a wonderful play with another couple. You’re in downtown Atlanta late at night. Your partner knows you don’t like walking alone in the dark. You asked her to wait while you go to the Ladies Room. When you come back to the lobby, your girlfriend and your two buddies have already left for the car and are nowhere in sight, forcing you to search for them, finally realizing you are left alone to walk to the car in the dark by yourself.
3. Every time you make love, your girlfriend grows distant as soon as the two of you decide to get out of bed. While in bed, she expressed satisfaction and was equally romantic and loving. Surprisingly, once her feet hit the ground, she is oddly moody and distant, withdrawing from you completely.
4. She offers to do something for you over and over again, always finding time to do “other” things, and opting to forget or otherwise, not get around to the favor she’s promised you.
5. She gives you something as a gift, then gives that gift away to someone else.
6. She criticizes your behavior, when you mimic a behavior of hers, not wanting or choosing to see herself in that same light. Insert drinking too much, eating badly, acting inconsiderate, being moody and withdrawn into this scenario.
7. She goes long periods without contacting you at all (7 – 10 hrs) during the workday, even though you know she has the time to text you if she chooses to, as she often finds the time to text you when she WANTS to.
8. She insists on keeping close contact with people who hope your relationship fails. (Insert ex-girlfriend, etc…here)
9. She makes major decisions without taking your feelings into consideration.
10. She calls you on a phone that you never use so she can say she tried to reach you, when you know she either never called or didn’t want to call.
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