Deciding whether she is the one can only be done over time. No. You don’t know after that first great sexcapade, when you’re flushed with the fever and can still smell the scent of her perfume on your clothes. And sorry, you can’t make that decision for sure, even after your first argument; the one that you resolve using all the techniques you learned in therapy with your last girlfriend.
Ten Clues That Say She Is the One
1. You’ve been dating six months or more and you have had several disagreements or fights and worked through them, and still want to spend the rest of your life with her.
2. You’ve been dating several months and can now list, not only what you love about her, but also what you see as her flaws. An attractive woman that you were interested in before you started dating your current girlfriend makes a pass at you, but you have no interest in pursuing her.
3. You’ve been dating several months and your new girlfriend calls late one night crying hysterically, explaining that her basement has filled up with sewage. You have no plumbing knowledge, but you go to her to show your support and wait with her for a plumber.
4. Your girlfriend’s body is beautiful to you, flaws and all, and you’ve actually grown to love the imperfections, thinking of them as cute little oddities that make her unique.
5. You assume that she will be the one you spend the rest of your life with, planning out your next vacation, the holidays and all other important events with her in mind.
6. You compromise and agree to activities that you don’t really want to do simply to please her and make her happy.
7. You bite your tongue when she gets on your nerves and resist saying the smart remark that pops into your head when she irritates you.
8. You seriously consider making an important decision that will bind you together in the future, like buying a house, moving in together, or adopting a child.
9. Even after many months together you find yourself smiling to yourself when you think about something funny she said or something cute she did.
10. You are proud to introduce her as your significant other, without hesitation or reservation.
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