Friday, January 22, 2010

How Do I Choose the Right Lesbian Dating Site For Me?

With the growth of online lesbian dating sites has come a massive amount of choices. Some sites are absolutely free to join. I don’t necessarily endorse those but if cash is a real concern, they are better than not doing anything. Some bigger sites are packed with things like lesbian blogs, lesbian forums, online chat IM. Others are cheaper, but can not have certain features. So, what should a girl do? Choose what you need in a dating site, then choose the service that is best matched to those needs.

Here are some things to consider when picking a lesbian dating site:

1. Your budget. How much can you spend per month for your subscription? With a bit of luck, your subscription will not be forever, but keep in mind it will be a recurring fee for the length of your membership.

2. Site features. I talked about a few features above that the more developed lesbian dating sites have. Which features are key to you?

– Online chat and instant messaging. This are a good method to make connection with someone. Do you want this feature, or would you be fine sticking with normal email.

– Forum and blog. Being a part of an online community can be an added benefit of joining a lesbian dating service.

– Profile matching systems. Some dating sites offer suggestions of suitable matches. This is often helpful in finding someone who might be good for you.

– Privacy. Do you want to regulate who can and can’t view your photo? Of course, if you use this feature, you could also be reducing your choices.

– Security. Does the website think about about the safety of its members. It is very easy for dishonest individuals to pretend to be someone else when on the web. Your safety is very important when joining any dating service online.

3. The other members. Possibly the most important feature to consider when picking a lesbian dating site is the size of its membership? Clearly the more members, the greater the chance for finding someone who lives near you. If a site does not have enough subscribers, then it might as well useless.

The best lesbian dating site I have used is MyLesbianDatingSite.com. It has thousands of real lesbian members all over the world, and all these other things I’ve talked about above. Also, it’s free to sign up, you just need an email address (and they DON’T do spam). Why not give it a try? You never know, you might meet me in the members’ area ;)

– Sherry

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