Every so often I approach the magazine rack of some store or another and take a healthy gander at women’s magazines. I’m shocked that most of the sex advice articles–when they aren’t putting women down for their poor body image or revealing over and over again that the best kept secret to sex is a vibrator–offer advice that applies to both men and women, whether you’re with someone of the same gender or opposite. I’ve decided to simplify it by offering a more cohesive, all-inclusive list of tips.
A mandatory disclaimer: Don’t ever force yourself to do something you’re uncomfortable with for your partner’s sake. If any of this advice is too kinky for you, don’t feel obligated to take it.
1. Tell Your Partner You Like It
Let your partner know they’re doing a good job–the more specific the better. Don’t be afraid to be a little dirty; if you let them know how hard you’re going to come, they’ll make sure you enjoy it to the fullest extent, not to mention it will drive them crazy.
2. Touch Your Naughty Bits
Whether you’re absent mindedly fondling yourself or working yourself down there, masturbating will show your partner that they’re driving you wild, plus they’ll be able to see what feels good to you. This is besides the fact that it will feel great for you! See if you’re able pleasure yourself while performing oral or during the old in-out.
3. Switch It Up
Even if you don’t have a big repertoire in terms of moves, rotating between different positions and sex acts will keep your partner’s attention.
4. Do It Somewhere New
Having sex in public places risks heavy punishment if you get caught (unfortunately the law is more likely to prosecute gay couples than heterosexual couples), but have you ever had sex on the kitchen table or on the dryer? Smooshing in places other than your bed adds spontaneity to what might otherwise be another Saturday night.
5. Take It Slower
What’s the rush? Got somewhere to be? No, you don’t, you’re busy getting busy, so why don’t you go at a comfortable pace and enjoy it? Rather than wearing yourself out trying to get it over with as quickly is possible, start slow and pick up–when you get tired, take a minute to go down on your partner, or vice-versa. Think of it this way: you’ll have more time to make each other completely satisfied.
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